How to Talk About Sex!
Excerpted from Dr. Jess' book Hot Sex: Tips, Tricks and Licks
Oral sex isn’t always about getting on your knees and puckering up. Some of the best oral sex (think long-term payoff) can be taken care of standing up or sitting at the dinner table—through real, honest communication. Getting oral with your partner is probably the most important thing you can do to cultivate a red-hot sexual relationship. So start talking!
It may not be easy to do, but the more you practice the easier it gets. If a topic is awkward, use these four tips to get started:
• Talk when the time is right. Initiating a serious conversation about sex right before you’re about to get hot and heavy isn’t always an ideal. you’re more likely to rush through the discussion if you’re goal is really to get down to business. So set some time aside when sex is off the table: Start talking about sex while you’re out...
Sex in Ancient Greece
As a student of philosophy, I believe that the Ancient Greeks laid the foundation for the way most of the world thinks today. Their philosophers examined a vast array of thoughts pertaining to the universals of life including the birds and the bees.
The erotic dilemma in Ancient Greece reflected the paradoxical nature of érōs. How could affection and love, or érōs, be capable of producing pleasure and kindness while also producing violent obsession and disruptions to the rational mind?
What did ancient Greek philosophers say about this? Some highlighted the importance of loving the person's soul as opposed to their body. Others, like the stoics, saw sexual aspirations as positive in so far as the state of character of the lover was in accordance to their ideal virtue. The two most impactful thinkers and surviving household names, Plato and Aristotle offered a range of insights on the subject. Check out their top ten...
Is Football Better Than Sex?
Yesterday morning, Jess stopped by Global TV's The Morning Show to discuss the connection between football and sex with Liza Fromer and Jeff McArthur. Check out her segment below:
Source for infographic: The Mirror UK
Dr. Jess on CTV’s The Marilyn Denis Show
Jess joined Marilyn and her live audience yesterday to host a dating quiz show in-studio. Check out the video below!
Jamie and I saw you @SexWithDrJess on @TheMarilynShow today!! Good job! pic.twitter.com/wgJVUujnbG
— Tristan Kong (@tzkong) March 29, 2016
Do you believe in love at first sight? @SexWithDrJess is here to talk all about attraction! https://t.co/pxWaZAJX20 pic.twitter.com/g3ZK8SO4QN — MarilynDenis (@TheMarilynShow) March 29, 2016
ICYMI: @SexWithDrJess quizzes two audience members about love & relationships! https://t.co/bkmfbGOC7i #MarilynLive pic.twitter.com/gKk9hVKcp7
— MarilynDenis (@TheMarilynShow) March 29, 2016
Your Ride Might Hold The Key to Love
Breaking the bank on an exotic car won’t increase your chances of being lucky in love, according to the findings of a recent autoTRADER.ca survey that explores the connection between romantic desirability and vehicle choice. In fact, Canadians claim to be more attracted to utility, practicality and frugality over luxury and flash when it comes to what a prospective lover is driving. 
Read the full article here.
The Financial Cost of Love
J-Lo’s love may not cost a thing, but apparently the cost of love for Canadian daters in on the rise. From fancy dates to exorbitant weddings, check out this RateSupermarket.ca infographic and Jess’ interview on Global TV's The Morning Show below. 
All About the Clitoris Part 1
Excerpted from The New Sex Bible
You’ve probably heard a great deal about the clitoris and you likely already know that it exists solely for the purpose of pleasure. But did you know that the clitoris has legs? And that the complex structure of the clitoris may explain why most women orgasm from rubbing, grinding and pressing on the vulva?
The clitoris is more than just a tiny nodule at the top of where the labia meet. That shiny pearl-like structure, which is often referred to as the clitoris is actually only the head of the clitoris. It also has two legs, two bulbs, foreskin, glands, nerves, blood vessels, a shaft and the capacity to become erect. Once you study the full anatomy of the clitoral complex, you may conclude that the clitoris is much like a penis...only smaller. But when you further examine the deep roots and multiple parts of the inner clitoris, it becomes more obvious that the clitoris isn’t a smaller version of the penis, but simply a variant model.
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All About the Clitoris Part 2
Continued from Part 1 here...
It is not uncommon for a woman to have trouble visually locating her clitoris, as it is not a body part that most of us learn about from a young age. In fact, you may have discovered its pleasure capacity by accident. If you haven’t had a chance to look at your clitoris, there is no time like the present! After a relaxing shower or bath, sit on your bum with your knees bent, legs spread and feet flat on the bed. Use a hand mirror as you pull up gently on the skin at the top of your inner labia (just below your pubic mound) to reveal your sensitive clitoral head. It is usually round and a bit shiny and protrudes from beneath the hood. Every woman’s body is different so yours may poke out conspicuously or only extend slightly from beneath its hood. Either way, know that you’re beautiful!
From the book of Kimberly (Age 55)
“I didn’t know what it was called until I hit 28! And I never actually looked at it until a...
NYE Ideas When You're On A Budget
It's easy to get caught up with the holidays that you push your New Years plans on the back burner. By the time you get around to making NYE plans, your wallet is drained from gift shopping. If you find yourself in this situation, not to worry - you're not alone. Here are a few New Years ideas for when you're on a budget:
A Cottage/Cabin Escape - Whether its just you and your significant other or a big group of friends, spending your evening at a cottage or a cabin is a great way to ring in the new year. If you or someone you know is lucky enough to have access to this kind of vacation property, it will keep your costs down and all you need to consider is your budget for food, drink and travel.
Celebrating in a popular city square - If you plan on celebrating in the big city, club tickets or fancy dinner reservations can get pricey. Why not head down to the free celebrations in your city's core? In big cities like Toronto and New York, free concerts, festivals...
Last Minute Sexy Gift Ideas
Sometimes the Holidays can sneak up on you and you find yourself in the mall, scrambling to find the perfect present for your special someone. Fear not; you are not alone. Don’t let the pressure of the impending holiday get you down. It’s the thought that counts. Consider the following ideas for the person on your nice or naughty list.
Chocolate
Give the gift of chocolate! Chocolate is a great way to show that you care about someone and many times, it is already packaged for you. Not only is chocolate a great way to sweeten your sweetie’s heart, it is also a great mood enhancer. Chocolate contains the compound PEA (phenylethylamine) which is responsible for releasing the same ‘feel good’ endorphins that happen during sex. Chocolate has come a long way from a humble candy bar. There are so many variations available on the market ranging from distinctly artisanal to sultry and extra dark. Search the internet or visiting your local chocolatier...
