Want to boost connection & appreciation in a matter of minutes? In this episode, we work our way through this short activity, One Thing I Love About You. You can try it with a partner or anyone else you love. It’s simple and you can power through it in a few minutes if you keep things short and sweet. Use these prompts to get started:

• One thing I love about your body…
• One thing I love about your voice…
• One thing I love about your energy/aura…
• One thing I love about your touch…
• One thing I love about your personality…
• One thing I love about your character…
• One thing I love about how you interact with others…
• One thing I love about how you treat me…
• One thing I love about your…

This exercise is excerpted from The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques & Strategies for Mind-Blowing Pleasure by Jessica O’Reilly & Marla Renee Stewart. This book is full of advice and activities designed...

Phone sex can be smokin’ hot — for auditory lovers, long-distance play partners, and anyone who wants to spice things up with dirty talk and fantasy exploration. Jess and Brandon share their thoughts and tips for the hottest phone sex, along with a few lines you can use to get started if you’re feeling shy or awkward.

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And for those who'd like to take a listen to our previous episode on Dirty Talk, you can check out "Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples" here.

Want to explore dry orgasms, multiple orgasms, edging, and more? We’ve got specific strategies and techniques you can experiment with tonight — all in the name of multiplying pleasure.

You don’t have to intensify your orgasms, but if you want to explore techniques to do so, we’ve got you covered. We share easy strategies you can try tonight! We also discuss the Foot Locker ejaculator incident and sex in public parks.

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Today’s quickie answers a few viewer questions about why ghost-facing is all the rage and how to spice things up when mobility is limited.

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How much time should you spend together?
What constitutes quality time?
How do you talk about your need for alone time, and time apart?
How do you divide your time when you’re busy and there never seems to be enough time?

In this episode, Jess and Brandon share their personal responses to the questions in the “Talking About Time Discussion” — questions and reflection prompts for better time management in relationships. You can utilize it with a partner or any other loved one and use these prompt to get started:

• How much time do you like to spend alone and why?
• How much time do you want to spend with friends? Why is it important to you to spend time with friends?
• How much time do you want to spend with your family? Why is time with your family important to you?
• Are you happy with the time we do spend together - would you like more or less?
• Would you like to spend our time together differently?
• What benefits do you attach to spending time apart?
• What do you see...

Want more pleasure and passion? How about more mindful connections and a boost in self-esteem? We don’t have all the answers, but we’re sharing a few resolutions and intentions for the new year — for happier relationships all around.

"Why Do I Love You Again Exercise" Questions from "The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay", co-authored with Marla Renee Stewart.

1. Tell the story of when we first met?
2. What was the first thing you noticed about me?
3. What songs remind you of our early time together?
4. What first attracted you to me?
5. How have I changed for the better and grown since our early days?
6. What stood out about our first date?
7. Describe our first kiss.
8. What do you remember about our first sleepover
9. Or the first time we had sex?
10. What is an awkward moment that I wouldn't want to re-live but we're able to laugh about now?
11. What was the most memorable or hottest sex we've ever had? And what made it so memorable?

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This week, we share (and try out!) a simple 3-step exercise to reflect upon 2021 and plan for a happy 2022. Coach Sonia Zarbatany also joins us to talk about our new coaching program and share her tips for better dating and happy marriage.

Thank you to our sponsors Adam and Eve. You can get 50% off almost any item + get FREE shipping + some Free goodies too if you use code DRJESS

Make the most of your relationships in 2022 with our 30-day program! There is no better investment than an investment in connection.

If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible.

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We’re doing it again! There is almost nothing better than sharing how you feel about your partner, and this “dating profile” gift is a simple, powerful gift that keeps on giving. Jess’ cousin Annabella & her cousin-in-law Denise (Anna’s mom) join us to share this homemade, no-cost, gift: a thoughtful and simple dating profile written for a loved one. Jess also shares one she wrote for her Mom, and Brandon and Jess share one another’s.

We encourage you to try this one yourself and let us know how it goes!

Huge shout out to our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com — You can get 50% off almost any item + get FREE shipping + some Free goodies too if you use code DRJESS

If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible.

And be sure to subscribe...

• How do you know if opening up is right for you?
• How do you tell your partner that you’re interested in ethical/consensual non-monogamy?
• What’s the difference between swinging and polyamory?
• What if you want a different ENM arrangement than your partner (e.g. they want to swing and you want to explore polyamory)

Sex Goddess & Erotic Educator Taylor Sparks joins us to share her experience and advice. She is the founder of Organic Loven, the largest BIPOC owned online organic intimacy shop & works to improve sex lives around the world.

You can check out her YouTube channel and follow Taylor on her Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter accounts.

We're also excited to announce a new program for 2022: 30 Days to Master Your Relationship!

4 Group coaching sessions

• Week 1: Relational Values & Blueprint
• Week 2: Emotional & Relational Communication
• Week 3: Bedroom Mastery
• Week 4: Re(Ignite) The Spark + Ladies Night Event in Montreal

If you’ve got questions or...