As a sexologist, I have one of the best jobs in the world. I am blessed to travel to far away lands, meet with fascinating people and share my adventures with a community of open minded friends. One of the best parts of my job involves working at clothing-optional, adult-only resorts like Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl in Mexico.

Though I have a blast hosting retreats at these resorts, I know that many of my followers are perplexed by the idea of a clothing-optional, erotic-themed vacation. I receive hundreds of questions every month about what really goes down on the beach, at the pool, in the jacuzzi and even in the restaurants. It's clear that people are simultaneously nervous, enticed and sometimes misinformed about the experience, so I've gathered the most frequently asked questions below and asked real-life resort guests to help out with the answers. Enjoy and please feel free to be in touch if you have any other questions!

FAQ: Do I have to be naked? "No, there are a...

Last month, I had the pleasure of attending and speaking at the Sexual Health Expo with Astroglide in New York City. I had a blast all weekend long and ran into old friends from Desire Resorts, The Pleasure Chest NYC and We-Vibe to name a few. I also had the pleasure of meeting a host of new folks including Stephanie Berman, President of Berman Innovations, LLC and creator of The Semenette. I was so excited to learn more about their new product and am pleased to feature an interview with Stephanie below. Please check it out!

What inspired you to create this product?

In the past, in my personal life, I have had relationships with both men and women. Having experienced intimacy with both "sides," I have a keen understanding of the differences between what heterosexual couples and same-sex couples can do and experience in the privacy of their bedroom. My inspiration in designing and developing The Semenette® was to afford same-sex couples the opportunity to mimic the...

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As the host of PlayboyTV’s Swing, I have the unique and humbling experience of working with couples who are willing to share the most intimate details of their relationships. The cast of the show is comprised of couples from all corners of the country who take a non-traditional approach to happily ever after: they identify as Swingers who open their relationships up to consensual extramarital sexual encounters. Though couples who swing face their regular share of challenges (every marriage is hard work!), many believe that the communication and openness required to navigate the Lifestyle deepens their connection, intensifies intimacy and leads to a lasting erotic connection. Swinging certainly isn’t for everyone, but almost everyone is intrigued by this alternative arrangement and I receive hundreds of questions related to the lifestyle every year. Since the cast of PlayboyTV’s Swing is comprised of experienced...

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How can you improve communication with your partner (and others) in the lifestyle?

Nikki and Daniel (pictured left): Use swinger vocabulary to explore ideas, but don't try to conform your relationship to that vocabulary. Explore the lifestyle at your own pace and according to the values you hold in your relationship.

Swinger Vocabulary includes the full spectrum of "Swapping", from Soft, Girl/Girl Only to Full, Completely Open.

In almost all instances of asking someone what they consider Completely Open, I hear everything from “totally open” as long as they are under the same roof to solo play dates (with or without specific rules governing those solo play dates).

Using those terms as goals or check marks or specific milestones to achieve is the sure way to undervalue the unique dynamics of your relationship.

Additionally, many swinger (or monogamish) vocabulary terms may be controversial in certain circles. In some circles,...

As you probably know, I visit Desire Resorts in Mexico several times per year to facilitate couples workshops, host book signings and recharge my batteries to the sound of the ocean breeze. And if you've ever heard me speak, you know that I always return with a handful of stories, anecdotes and lessons (like The Claudia AKA The Goddess) drawn from my interactions with the couples I meet at the resorts. Not surprisingly, I receive more questions about Desire Resorts than almost any other topic (e.g. What happens there? Is everyone naked? Do you get naked? Do you see people having sex in public?), so I've recruited a "newbie" guest to answer some questions about her first visit.

Julie, a Canadian Public Relations specialist, was thrilled to share her insights and experience.

Jess: What prompted you to visit Desire Resorts in the first place?

Julie: I have always been a very open-minded, sexual being. It took years as an adult to discover who I am, and to...

Here's a great podcast by Michele Schalin about advocating for a better sex life by way of things like kink and BDSM, including 50 Shades of Grey. Check out the podcast here.

Michele Schalin is a sex blogger and entrepreneur. She is on a personal mission to spread a sex positive message and help other women feel empowered with their own sexuality. Michele and her husband Rich own Little Shop Of O's, an online sex-positive community that shares fun, sexy, informative and entertaining tidbits for women, men and couples to assist them on their own journey of sexual growth and exploration.

Dr. Jess wants to make sure that you're getting what you need. Her latest monthly contribution to Post City Magazines outlines seven simple steps to have more sex.

To read the full article, click here.

Dr. Jess joined Barb Di Giulio, host of The Night Side on NEWSTALK 1010, to answer callers questions about sex and relationships.

Listen to Dr. Jess talk about size, anal, and body types!

You're welcoming 2015 with open arms and promises of a healthy lifestyle, so why shouldn't you include your love life? Dr. Jess' most recent article in Post City Magazines underlines the importance and benefits of cultivating a happy marriage. Happy marriages can reduce stress, lift your spirits, boost immunity and can help to extend your lifespan. Advertising the benefits of a happy marriage without paving a path to success would be cruel, so Jess has included some ideas to help the happy factor in your marriage. And even if you're already in a blissful marriage, you can never have too much happy!

Continue to read on here...

Every Wednesday morning at 9am, I have the pleasure of hanging with Fred and Mel at 102.1 The Edge. They ask the tough questions about sex, relationships, marriage, intimacy and communication and I do my best to provide answers.

This morning, we discussed my latest piece for Post City Magazines: "The Marriage Saver: Dr. Jess lists six chats you need to have with your partner".

Listen using the player below.