Board - certified urologist; Dr. Joshua Gonzalez joins us to answer your sexual health questions.

• What can I do about ED? Are there natural treatment options for someone on blood pressure meds?
• How can I deal with Interstitial Cystitis?
• What can I do about vaginal atrophy, itchiness, and irritation?
• Should I be worried that one testicle pulls up into my body at orgasm?
• Can I speed up my orgasm? I have delayed ejaculation.
• What can I do to improve the taste of my ejaculate?

Our guest, Dr. Josh Gonzalez is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of sexual dysfunctions. He completed his medical education at Columbia University and his urological residency at the Mount Sinai Medical Center. Throughout his career, Dr. Gonzalez has focused on advocating for sexual health and by; providing improved healthcare to the LGBTQ+ community. You can follow Dr. Gonzalez on his social media accounts from his Twitter to his Instagram.

He also; recently started a...

Take your pleasure to the next level by exploring the emotions that intensify the experience. Your elevated erotic feelings (EEFs), can heighten physical pleasure, psychological thrill, emotional fulfillment, intimate connection, spiritual experience, and much more. In most cases, no physical technique or position can compare to exploring the emotional dimensions of pleasure, so this week, we dive deeper into the emotional-erotic connection.

If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save!

Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered.

We've extended the Mind Blowing Oral: Penis or Clit edition sale at HappierCouples.com for one more...

How do you need to feel in order to get in the mood for sex? Relaxed? Loved? Safe? Desired?

Your core erotic feeling (CEF) is the feeling you require in order to get in the mood for sex, and it can revolutionize the way you approach pleasure, seduction, and sex.

If you or a partner; have trouble getting in the mood, or if you find that erotic touch often isn’t enough - this episode will help you better understand the emotional-erotic connection, so you can have all the hot sex you desire.

If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible.

If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save!

Big thanks to our...

• What is the appeal of sissification?
• How do you introduce kinky play to a partner?
• What are the 7 types of sissification?
• How can consensual humiliation become erotic?

Sexologist & psychotherapist Carlos Cavazos (pronounced Kuh-Voss-oh's) joins us to share his experience and perspective on kinks, fetishes, gender-bending, and much more! Check out Carlos’ The Naughtylicious Sex Podcast, and learn more about his practice at Counseling By Carlos. And don't forget to give Carlos a follow on his Twitter account!

If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save!

Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered.

We've extended...

• How often should you get tested?
• What are the risks of oral sex?
• What are the risks of giving oral when you have a cold sore?
• How can you reduce the risk of STI transmission?
• What do STI tests entail?
• Can you get any STIs from a toilet seat or bed sheets?
• How soon should you get tested after potential exposure?

Dr. Ina Park, author of Strange Bedfellows, Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs joins us to answer all of our questions about making sex safer and de-stigmatizing STIs. You can follow Ina on Instagram to learn more!

Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com.

Please let them know you heard about them here by using code DRJESS to save 50% + get a bunch of FREE gifts + free shipping.

If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS to save!

We've extended the Mind Blowing Oral:...

• How can I use my breath to explore multiple orgasms?
• Are there different types of multiple orgasms?
• How many orgasms can you have in one session?
• How do I have full-body orgasms?

We explore these questions and more while sharing techniques and strategies for more pleasure (and more orgasms) — from the “cup and pulse” technique to the blended orgasm, you’re sure to find something new to try whether your partnered or solo.

Be sure to check out Dr. Jess' Mind Blowing Oral: Clit Edition if you're looking to perfect your moves or add a number of new moves to your repertoire. Use code PODCAST to save 25% when checking out.

Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any item + get FREE gifts & shipping.

And if you’re shopping for Womanizer and We-Vibe toys, also use code DRJESS to save at checkout.

And if you’re interested in checking out the adults-only Desire Cruises, you can learn more here.

Luna Matatas & Marla Renee Stewart join us to offer a sneak peek into their Kinky Tapas retreat. They answer all of our questions including:

• How do I begin to explore my dominant side?
• What’s the difference between Dominance & submission versus Topping and Bottoming?
• How do I ensure safety when exploring psychological kink?
• How do I introduce a bit of kink into our existing sexual routine?
• When can pain be pleasurable?
• How can I explore genital worship and torture?

Check out the Kinky Tapas seminar in Oakland, California April 29th - May 1st. (Use code KINKMEUP to save!) Hosted in two beautiful dungeons, the event includes catering & kinky photography and explorations of a range of topics including:

Luna & Marla will take you to two dungeons in California where they’ll cover:

• Confidence and erotic creativity
• Scene Setting, Safety & Communication
• Commanding a Room
• Developing confidence and presence
• Dominant Do’s and Don’ts
• ...

• Do you struggle with rejection?
• How does your response vary from the boardroom to the bedroom?
• Do layers of your identity affect how you deal with rejection?

We surveyed our community regarding their experiences of rejection, and we shared their insights in this week’s episode. We think it’s a great one! Thank you to those who sent messages. We appreciate you.

Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com - save 50% on almost any single item + get free shipping and a bunch of other FREEBIES with code DRJESS

If you’re looking for an episode on sexual initiation techniques, click here.

Check out the 12 insights on managing rejection below, as well as the full transcript (scroll down).

12 Insights on Rejection from Our Community

(Some of these have been edited for clarity/brevity.)

1. Why can women say no to sex, but when a guy says no, it’s crazy?
2. For me, it’s all about connection. When I get rejected over and over again, it brings up...

What should you do when a love interest pulls back out of nowhere? Perhaps you’re hitting it off and then all of a sudden things change — texts messages become sparser, response times are longer or they simply wait for you to initiate. They’re still engaged and don’t seem to want to end things, but you’re left feeling confused and rejected. Jess & Brandon weigh in with their thoughts and scripts to help you respond and they also talk about their experiences with rejection.

If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save!

Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered.

...

Can you recognize the signs of human trafficking? Would you know what to do to support someone who is being victimized by a trafficker? February 22 is National Human Trafficking Awareness Day, so this week we’re discussing prevalence, signs, and what you can do if you or someone you know is at risk.

Call the Canadian Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-833-900-1010. Or chat online at www.canadianhumantraffickinghotline.ca

And don’t forget to go back and listen to Episode 147: How to Help Someone in an Abusive Relationship

Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered.

If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save!

...