How to Manage Infidelity As A Couple
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George’s wife cheated on him — twice. He still remembers the smell of the room they were in when she told him 13+ years ago. George joins us to share his story of how worked through the infidelity and continue to grow as a couple. He shares his struggles, lessons learned and the ways in which his community supported them through the process. Many years later, they’re together and thriving just as they did in the early years of their relationship.
Please see a rough transcript of this episode below.
Brandon: Welcome to the @SexWithDrJess Podcast. I’m your co-host Brandon Ware here with my lovely partner, Dr. Jess
Jess: Today we’re going to be talking about infidelity and moving forward after an affair.
In the past, we’ve talked about the fact that there are many ways in which you can hurt your partner. There are many means through which you...
Kink, Energy Orgasms & Multi-Dimensional Body Scans
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Evguenia joins Jess & Brandon to share her personal experience with kink play, polyamory, and energy orgasms. She shares a short erotic story (The Decadent Play Party) from her book, Alice in Polyland and walks Jess & Brandon through a multi-dimensional body scan.
As it was referenced on the podcast, check out Evguenia's free Healing Body Scan Exercise here.
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Amazing Anal & Prostate Play
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Author & Sex Educator Carlyle Jansen joins us to discuss anal sex, prostate pleasure and sex toys. Carlyle shares her insights and tips regarding:
- How to stimulate the perineal sponge
- The best toys for prostate pleasure
- The importance of butt plugs for anal sphincter relaxation
- Why you want to have Goldilocks poops
- The water-bottle butt technique
- The clock technique for the prostate
- The importance of your knuckles when it comes to your butt
- The relationship between “rest & digest” and pleasure
Be sure to catch "Conversations for Couples: Passion, Intimacy, Sex & More" with Jess & Brandon at Good For Her in Toronto on January 27th, 2020! Get your tickets here.
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To learn more about anal play, listen to Episode 72, "All...
Specific Strategies for Talking to Teens About Sex, Sexting & More
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Author and sex education expert, Dr. Karen Rayne is a wealth of information and has developed specific and actionable strategies to help you talk to your kids and teens about sex and other difficult topics. In this episode, Karen and Jess discuss:
- How to talk to teens about breakups, sex, sexting, risk-taking
- The “one question” rule to revolutionize conversations about sex
- Specific “rules” for talking to teens
- 10 steps to break the “hush factor” when it comes to sex
- The benefits of considering yourself a “contractor” when it comes to your teen
- How to ensure that your child/teen feel supported and come to you during times of need, distress and crisis
- Sexting - essential rules, approaches and considerations
- How to stay cool when your teen is riling you up
- Considerations related to how much space and autonomy to give your teen
As Dr....
Sexual Values Questionnaire Part II
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Jess & Brandon complete the Sexual Values Questionnaire and continue learning about themselves and one another. They discuss how they feel about the physical, practical, emotional and spiritual components of sex. They also discuss sexual frequency and some of the challenges they personally face.
This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.
If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible.
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How to Better Understand Your Sexual Values (And Your Partner’s)
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Happy holidays! In this episode, Jess and Brandon use the Sexual Values Questionnaire to explore their own sexual values. Brandon shares his experiences learning about sex and gender through sport, family and (Catholic) school and Jess shares her memories of what she learned about sex growing up. They don’t complete the full exercise, so it will be continued in next week’s episode.
Feel free to try the Sexual Values Questionnaire on your own or with your partner(s) using the following questions as discussion prompts:
1. What messages did you receive about sex growing up?
2. What messages do you wish to retain and which ones do you want to reframe/discard?
3. What does sex mean to you?
4. How important is sex to you?
5. What emotional components of sex do you value?
6. What physical & practical components of sex do you value?
7. What spiritual components of sex do you value?
8. How...
The Most Common Couple Fights & How to Manage Conflict This Holiday Season
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What are the most common issues couples fight about? How can you argue less and effectively manage conflict? How do you find middle ground when it comes to tough topics like money, sex and time? How can you support your partner over the holidays when they’re faced with family and sibling conflict? Jess and Brandon share their stories and sex therapist and psychologist Dr. Rachel Needle weighs in with her expertise.
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This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.
If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible.
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Full-Body Orgasms & How to Be Grounded in Your Body
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M'kali-Hashiki has a complex sexual history including personal experience with polyamory, non-monogamy, BDSM, and achieving mystical states during sex. She considers herself a “sexual outlaw”, as well as being a “triple minority” (Black, female, and queer); accordingly, she views society's standards on sexuality with a critical eye.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Erotic empowerment & breath work
- The difference between the erotic and the sexual
- How to be more grounded in your body
- The importance of “checking in” with the butthole and with the jaw
- Full-body orgasms
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Fat Sex, Topping & Bottoming and How To Be a Dominant in Bed
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Nikki DaVaughn joins Jess to share insights on Domination, dirty talk, fat sex and body confidence. We cover:
- Scripts you can use if you want to try being more Dominant with your lover.
- The difference between being a Dominant and a top; the difference between being a sub and a bottom.
- The language of fatness: plus-size vs curvy vs fat.
- How her mother’s voice offset the potential effects of a fat phobic and objectifying culture.
- Body positivity versus body neutrality.
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This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.
If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a...
Learning to Love Yourself — Especially When Dealing With Loss, Grief & Shame
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Dr. Ava Cadell shares her journey from growing up in an orphanage and surviving assault to working as a nude model and becoming one of the most well-known sexologists in the world. Ava shares a wealth of information from her personal and professional journeys including:
- Exercises to heal from loss and self-hate
- How to find your own voice after trauma
- Strategies for loving yourself after the loss of a loved one
- Neuro-based exercises to break familiar patterns
- Strategies for improving body image and rewriting scripts about love, sex and intimacy
- The role of art therapy, empathy and meditation in healing
- Free resources for those dealing with grief, loss and shame
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If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your...
