How We Manage Our Relationship in Isolation

podcasts Apr 03, 2020

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We’ve been isolating at home in Toronto for 19 days now and we thought we’d share how we’re doing as a couple — what’s working and what isn’t. We talk about some of the conflicting feelings we’re experiencing and brainstorm ways to make sure we’re still feeling connected over the longer term (since this could last a while). We talk about how we respond to unsettling emotions like anxiety and share some ideas for daters who can’t connect in person. Thanks for listening.

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Getting Naked With Tova Leigh: Monogamy, Motherhood & More

podcasts Mar 27, 2020

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Tova Leigh joins Jess to share her journey as a mother, woman and author of Effed at 40. They discuss:
  • How she got over her body image issues after birth
  • How to care less about what other people think
  • The reconciliation of motherhood and sexuality
  • The experience of stripping down at a nude spa
  • The power of nude photoshoots
  • Her new book: Effed At 40

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Your Quaran-Team: How to Manage the Stress of COVID-19

podcasts Mar 18, 2020

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Therapist and writer, Jake Ernst, joins Jess and Brandon to discuss:
  • Strategies for assembling your support team (AKA quaran-team) during this stressful time
  • Apps that can help you to manage stress, transition and isolation
  • How to manage being cooped up with your family, partner or roommates
  • How to cope with difficult personalities and strained relationships in close proximity
  • Ways to bring yourself back to the present and support others in doing the same
  • How to recognize and manage signs of stress

Follow Jake on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter. Learn more about Straight Up Health here or by following them on Instagram. As Jake referenced during the episode, consider Calm's 30-Day free trial.

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What We Can Learn from Equine Horse Therapy

podcasts Mar 13, 2020

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How can equine therapy with horses help couples improve communication? How can horses support survivors of trauma? What is vaginismus and what are some approaches to managing painful sex? Dr. Maha Nasrallah-Babenko joins Jess to answer these questions and more.

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Sexuality Superheroes: Carlos Cavazos

podcasts Mar 10, 2020

Say hello to this week's Sexuality Superhero, Carlos Cavazos. Carlos is a Licensed Psychotherapist and Certified Sex Coach who has consulted people from around the world! Carlos also has a successful Youtube channel, preaching their advice about relationships, sex and fetishes. Check out Carlos' feature below and learn more!

How did you find yourself working in sexuality?

I sort of manifested it. When I was little, I used to be obsessed with "Talk Sex with Sue Johanson". I would stay up late and watch this lady with vagina pillows and penis puppets talk about all sorts of things that I found fascinating. I instantly knew I wanted to do that when I grew up. When it came time to start college I realized that there was no clear route to becoming a sexpert so I chose to major in psychology. During my intro to psych class, the professor had everyone in the auditorium introduce themselves and what they wanted to do career-wise. I mentioned I wanted to be a sex...

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Core Erotic Feeling, Gang-Bangs & Spankings

podcasts Mar 06, 2020

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Award winning sex educator, Tristan Taormino, joins Jess to talk about spanking, gang bangs, eye candy, social justice and mind-effing.

Why you might want to attend Sex Down South this year...

  • How to reclaim the gang bang
  • The role of the gang bang “host”
  • How to discuss rules and boundaries before a group sex experience
  • Spanking rules and tools
  • The importance of understanding your core erotic feeling
  • The benefits of uncovering your elevated erotic feelings
  • The role of a service top
  • The appeal of the mind eff

If you purchase tickets to Sex Down South, use code SEXWITHDRJESS for 20% off!

Follow Tristan on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. Have a listen and check out Tristan’s podcast, Sex Out Loud.

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Why We Love Dirty Underwear!

podcasts Feb 28, 2020

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On this week's podcast, panty-peddler, Lacey Bloom, joins Jess to talk about her experience selling used underwear online. What makes it so exciting and how can used underwear help to destigmatize sexual taboos? They also chat about wild requests, bodily discharge, personal kinks and finding pleasure in the mundane.

Listen to Lacey weekly on The Sofia Gray Show. Follow Sofia Gray on Twitter, Instagram & Facebook.

We also sat down with Sofia Gray rep, Zak Callen, to get to know the brand a little better. Check out their Q&A below!

1. Why did you launch Sofia Gray?

Sofia Gray was started by a group of young entrepreneurs, who had a real interest in the adult industry. They saw that a safe and secure, well designed, quality marketplace did not exist for used underwear. Hence, Sofia Gray was born.

2. Who uses Sofia Gray - on the buying and selling side? 

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How to Help Someone in an Abusive Relationship

podcasts Feb 21, 2020

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The toll of intimate partner violence struck close to home this week and with this weighing on her mind, Jess discusses nine strategies for supporting a loved one who is dealing with an abusive partner. This isn’t a private issue, it’s a public health crisis and we have to do more to protect those at risk.

Content warning: I will be talking about violence and the death of someone in my community.

I will be reading some of the details of a recent death, so if you don’t feel comfortable hearing about intimate partner violence and death, please stop this podcast now. This may not be for you.

Last weekend Dr. Amie Harwick, a marriage and family therapist who focused on relationships and sex was killed. She was killed in her home and was found below a third floor balcony with evidence of manual strangulation according to news reports. Her ex has been charged with murder.

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Orgasmic Meditation: A First-Hand Report

podcasts Feb 14, 2020

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Sex writer, Suzannah Weiss, joins Jess to share her personal experience with orgasmic meditation. She discusses:

  • An alternative view of orgasm
  • The very specific technique for “orgasmic meditation"
  • The story of her first time with a stranger
  • The high she gets from "extended orgasm"
  • Her favourite sex club
  • Advice for sex club newbies

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A Rant About Micro-Cheating

podcasts Feb 07, 2020

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This is a six minute quickie! And it’s a bit of a rant about micro-cheating. From deep-liking to chatting with an ex, what behaviours are considered cheating? And how do you deal with a partner whose behaviour is making you uncomfortable? Have a quickie listen today!

Behaviours that have been classified as micro-cheating include: using emoticons, liking too many photos on an account, “deep liking” online (liking old photos), posting sexy selfies, having friends of the gender(s) to which you’re attracted, and having private DM conversations.

I think this is absurd. What specifically constitutes cheating is subjective, but the micro-cheating expectations set some very narrow guidelines that simply are not realistic. In fact, some of these expectations are rooted in control, possession and monitoring that sets off some red flags with the potential to undermine respect,...

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