To celebrate Masturbation May we’re joined by Dr. Megan Stubbs, author of Playing without a partner, a single’s guide to sex, dating, and happiness, who weighs in on these questions and more!

• What are the advantages of being single?
• Is it okay to keep going back to my ex?
• What does it mean if my partner of over a year hasn’t said I love you?
• Is autocunnlingus possible?
• What is edging?
• Why is everyone always complaining about dating and what can we do about it?
• How can you talk to a new partner about sensitive topics?
• What can you do if you’re gassy on a date?

Megan's book discusses embracing and enjoying life as a single, while steering people away from the idea of what they think a single lifestyle should look like. Follow Megan on Twitter and her Instagram.

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This week we explore surprising hot spots on the body including the Million Dollar Mark as well as a variety of erotic touch techniques from the Liquid Trace to the Breath Kiss. We also answer a listener question about whether or not to invite an ex to your wedding.

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And don’t forget to tune into Intimately You with Dr. Jess on CityTV Fridays at midnight starting May 14th -- presented by TSC!

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Dr. Shemeka Thorpe is a brilliant sex researcher, post-doctoral fellow and the founder of the Minority Sex Report. She joins us to talk about her latest research and we answer some of your burning questions including:

• I can't get into receiving oral sex. Is something wrong with me?
• What's the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality?
• How do I get over my partner's past?
• How can we improve sexual communication?
• How do we manage pain during sex?
• How do I advocate for myself with health professionals?

Check out Dr. Shemeka Thorpe's work (including her database of BIPOC Pelvic Floor Therapists) & follow her on Instagram where she is #MakingResearchRelevant.

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Got sexual and pelvic health questions? We’ve got answers! Dr. Rachel Gelman, Doctor of Physical Therapy and pelvic floor specialist returns to answer your questions related to sex, pleasure and pelvic floor functioning including:

• What is bumper sex?
• What can I do about leaking when I laugh?
• How do bowel movements affect pelvic floor function and sexual response?
• Why is anal pleasure so much hotter after my second child?
• What causes painful erections and how do you treat them?
• How do you promote stronger erections — for penises & clitorises?
• How does sitting at your desk all day affect sexual functioning?
• Why does oral feel so good after childbirth?
• How can changing the way you breathe promote pelvic floor function?

Learn more about Dr. Rachel Gelman at www.pelvicwellpt.com and follow her on social:
IG: @pelvichealthsf
twitter: @rachelgdpt
FB: @pelvicwellpt

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How do you keep things exciting in the midst of a repetitive routine? How can adults be more playful (because playfulness is associated with happier relationships & hotter sex)? What simple changes can you implement to make your daily interactions more fun, passionate and erotic -- even if you're super busy?

You're not a light switch, so you likely can't get turned on in the blink of an eye. This week to celebrate our wedding anniversary, we share 20+ specific strategies and action items you can use to make your relationship more romantic, intimate and erotic.

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What are the causes of pain postpartum? How can you soothe your own pain and what exercises and massage techniques can help? What does self massage entail — both directly and indirectly? And how do you assess readiness for sex postpartum? How does a Caesarian birth affect sexual functioning?

Perinatal Therapist, Janette Yee, joins us to answer these questions and more.

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Introductory bonus: access to 6 months of weekly live online group classes with Janette every Wednesday at 1pm EST. She teaches a mini-lesson, runs a mini-workout, and answers questions. All recorded and available to all students within 24 hours. (Value: $2600)

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A listener shares their story and feelings after having had cheated on their long-term partner. They ask for help managing the guilt and shame and Jess & Brandon weigh in on the topic with a discussion of:

• Whether or not to tell your partner about an affair
• Why talking about cheating can be helpful in all relationships
• How to talk about affairs in the hypothetical to improve understanding in relationships
• How the language of confession can feel burdensome
• How to manage feelings of guilt
• How to forgive yourself
• How to work through feelings of shame
• How to practice self-compassion
• How to learn from previous regrets

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Adam Maurer joins us to crush on Brandon, sass Jess (with love) and answer your sex questions including:

• How do I pick between partners — a safe partner versus one with whom the sex is hotter?
• How do I deal with the fact that I love my boyfriend, but I’m no longer find him physically appealing?
• How can fetishes reduce stress and cultivate connection?
• What can we do to maintain attraction over time?
• What can we do to make the relationship run more smoothly?
• How can individual's growth potentially threaten a relationship?
• How do trauma responses affect partner and relationship decisions?
• How do I deal with a dental visit knowing that I have a dental fetish?

Follow Adam on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.

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The brilliant Luna Matatas joins us to answer your sex and pleasure questions including:

• How do you stimulate the prostate?
• What are the best anal toys for beginners?
• What are lactation fetishes?
• Does size matter?
• How do I get over body image issues before I go to a play party?
• How can I bring up fetishes to a partner?
• How can we normalize anal play and pegging?
• How can I pleasure my partner externally?

Follow Luna on Facebook, Twitter, Youtube & Instagram. Be sure to listen to The Plug Podcast with Luna Matatas.

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Dr. Shari Nicole, Psychologist and Key Consultant of Everyday Psychology, joins us to talk about the importance and challenge of adult friendships. We discuss cutoff culture, attachments styles, boosting confidence and more including answers to these common questions:

• How many friends do most people have?
• How do childhood experiences affect adult friendships?
• How do you know if a friendship is worth saving?
• How do you know that it’s time to break up with a friend?
• How do you go about breaking up with a friend?
• How do friendships affect intimate relationships?
• How do friendships differ according to gender?
• How can you be more confident in your friendships?

Follow Dr. Shari on Instagram and Facebook. Be sure to check out her podcast 3 Psychs and a Mic.

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