Do you know how to offer support when a loved one is stressed out? Do you feel supported when you're distressed?

This week, we share an exercise to help you talk about; your specific needs to deepen your understanding and get more of what you want (and less of what you don't want) in your relationships.

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Jess and Brandon discuss research - related to the most common sexual fantasies — from threesomes and group sex to sex with older partners and more. They also share a bit about their own fantasies, and Jess talks about the fantasies she hears about from clients. Finally, they share strategies to open up to your partner(s) about your most intimate fantasies.

For further reading on fantasies, check out these links below:

• What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy
• Is it my overactive imagination. The effects of contextually activated attachment insecurity on sexual fantasies
• Sexual fantasies and viewing times across the menstrual cycle. A diary study

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• When should you start talking about porn (literacy)?
• How can you support a teen who has been sexting?
• How do you explain where babies come from to a 4-year-old?
• What is the first thing parents should teach kids about sex?
• What are some ethical porn sites for 18+-years-olds?

Dr. Karen Rayne, author, educator, and executive director of UnHushed, joins us to answer your questions about sex education and how to talk to youth about sex & relationships.

UNHUSHED curricula empower people, making it possible for individuals of all ages to make honest, ethical, and empathy-based decisions about their sexuality. Their resources provide the knowledge needed to make crucial decisions and the tools to communicate with current and potential partners. Their curricula and lessons plans are comprehensive (covering birth to adulthood), innovative, fun, inclusive & revised yearly to be on the cutting edge of the constantly evolving sexuality education field

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This week, we share advice for shy couples at a sex club -- how to meet new people, language to open conversations, and how to prep for awkward conversations.

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• Should I use Kegel balls?
• What's a good prostate toy that's not too big?
• Can I isolate my vaginal and anal muscles in pelvic floor contractions?
• Do I have a wedding ring fetish?

Jess answers your questions on this week's quickie episode.

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• How can you prepare for a hookup if you'll be partying with drugs & alcohol?
• What protection should you use for different types of sex?
• How do I talk to my teens about hookups?

Jess discuss hookups -- in college and beyond.

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Not everyone loves having their clitoris touched. In this episode, we hear from a listener who has a specific list of dos & don'ts - when it comes to sexual pleasure. We explore different types of orgasms and pathways to pleasure beyond the clit.

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What do sex and music have in common, and what's the best music to enhance your sexual experience? Jess and Brandon explore the erotic-musical connection and share their ideal sex playlists. Check out Brandon's playlist here (remember to sign into your Spotify account to access the playlist) and enjoy Tchaikovsky's 1812 Overture here.

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Why does sexual desire plummet and how can you get it back? This week - Jess shares specific tools, tips, and strategies to reignite sexual desire. She also explores the concept of responsive vs. spontaneous desire, the Fire & Ice list, and more!

Here's a special offer for our listeners: save 25% off on Happier Couples Inc with code PODCAST. Check out the Mindful Sex course or learn a few techniques with Mind Blowing Oral.

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How can you recognize sexual harassment & what can you do to stop it?
What language can you use to interrupt a harasser?
How can you approach a stranger in a way that is respectful and fruitful?

We share strategies for being an ally, speaking up, and stopping harassment at the gym and beyond.

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