All About Female Pleasure

This is the workshop for which I received the most thanks from the female attendees. Going down on a woman can be a wonderful source of pleasure for all parties involved and we can all use a few suggestions to improve our repertoire. I list a few tidbits below and welcome your recommendations and feedback.

General Suggestions:

• Communication is of utmost importance for mutual enjoyment. Ask your partner what she likes and welcome her reactions.
• A good partner is eager to offer constructive feedback and show appreciation for her partner's efforts.
• Safer sex practices for cunnilingus involve the use of barrier methods such as dental dams.
• For increased sensation and pleasure, apply a water-based lubricant to both sides of the dental dam.
• Consider pleasuring and teasing her entire body before proceeding to her vulva. 

Grooving:

• Gently run your tongue between the grooves of her outer and inner labia.
• Alternate your breathing patterns to stimulate her with your warm breath: breathe gently with your mouth wide open; suck in your breath with your lips formed into a tight circle; breath lightly through your teeth to unevenly distribute your breath; stick your tongue out and roll it into a loop to breath through. Be sure to avoid blowing into her vagina if there is any chance she is pregnant.
• Keep your hands busy on her thighs, breasts, stomach, perineum or the backs of her knees.

Lip Lock:

• Position yourself at her side so that your bodies lay in a "T" position; she should be on her back and you should lay on your stomach with your bodies forming a ninety-degree angle to one another.
• Use your lips to hold her outer labia together while running your tongue between them. This technique will be facilitated by the positioning described in step #1.
• Use your lips to hold her inner labia together while running your tongue between them.
• As you run your tongue between her labia, consider licking the glans or hood of the clitoris when you reach the top; ask her if direct stimulation is something she enjoys before proceeding.

The Artist:

• Position yourself between her legs or straddle her supine body with your back towards her face.
• Use your tongue to paint an elaborate rose over her vulva.
• Use a stiff, pointed tongue for detailed strokes and a wide, relaxed tongue for heavier brush strokes.

The Hummer/The Buzz:

• As you lick, suck, taste and play with her vulva, try to create the sensations of a vibrator over her lips, vaginal opening, pubic mound or clitoral hood by making a buzzing sound or humming.
• If you're a bit uncomfortable buzzing or humming, try whispering to her to allow for sound vibrations; try not to be shy because this one is really worth it!
• Again, these are just a few thoughts among an infinite number of exciting possibilities.

Have fun and practice safer sex!