Vulva & Clitoris Pleasure Techniques

This post is a continuation from here...

Let's cover a few techniques that can be used during a vulva caress. Rather than simply thrusting your finger(s) into their vagina, consider a range of activities to explore areas that have a far greater capacity for sexual pleasure than the interior vaginal walls. As with all sexual activity, it is ideal to ask for verbal permission to proceed with each new adventure.

The Lip Liner

1. Position yourself comfortably between her legs while she lays on her back.
2. Apply lots of lube to your hands. See Astroglide for tasty lube.
3. Use your lubricated index finger to slowly and gently trace a line from her belly button down against her lips and back to her anus.
4. Start with your left index finger and trace along the side of her left outer labia (lip) and back up to her belly button.
5. Use your right index finger to trace along the side of her right outer labia (lip) and then back up to her belly button.
6. Take your time and repeat brushing against her inner labia.
7. Use both hands to draw gentle lines on both sides and observe which areas elicit the greatest response. Ask her for feedback as necessary.
8. Alternatively, you can straddle her upper abdomen with your back toward her face and draw lines in the opposite direction (beginning at the anus and ending at her bellybutton).

The Licking Hand

1. This is the same technique described in the Hand Job workshop.
2. Soak your hand in lube and pretend to lick gently around her inner thighs, perineum, pubic mound and vulva.
3. Use two hands to mimic several tongues and paint circles, figure eights and W's.
4. Gently use your "tongue" to pull up on the skin above her clitoral hood and release to give the glans and shaft a stroking massage.

The Vee-Jay-Jay

1. Position yourself between her legs and apply lots of lube to your fingers.
2. Form a "V" with your index and middle fingers and begin with this "V" at the very top of her vulva; the vertex/bottom of the "V" should begin just above the top of her clitoral hood.
3. Slowly pull the "V" downward applying medium-pressure and close your fingers together gradually as you reach the bottom of her labia. She may like you to gently squeeze her lips together between your index and middle fingers.
4. When you reach the bottom and your fingers are together, slide upward and open them again into the "V" position.
5. Repeat and consider changing positions to perform an inverted "V" stroke. This will allow your fingers to close around the clitoral hood and glans if she is comfortable with direct stimulation.
6. Alternatively, you can add your ring finger to form a "W".

Cross My Fingers

1. Apply lots of lube to your fingers.
2. Cross your index and middle fingers on one hand with your palm facing down. You can use your other hand to rub her thighs, breasts, hands, bellybutton or any other body part she might enjoy.
3. Gently insert your crossed fingers into her vagina and slowly rotate your hand so your palm faces upward.
4. As you pull out, you may want to gently stroke her clitoral glans or hood with your lubricated thumb, which should be on top once the palm is facing up.

These are just a few thoughts to get you started. Experiment and modify these suggestions to make them your own and take lots of time to allow your arousal and intimacy to develop to new heights. As always, practice safer sex and have fun doing it!

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