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How to Better Understand Your Sexual Values (And Your Partner’s)
Happy holidays! In this episode, Jess and Brandon use the Sexual Values Questionnaire to explore their own sexual values. Brandon shares his experiences learning about sex and gender through sport, family and...
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The Most Common Couple Fights & How to Manage Conflict This Holiday Season
What are the most common issues couples fight about? How can you argue less and effectively manage conflict? How do you find middle ground when it comes to tough topics like money, sex and time? How can you support...
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Full-Body Orgasms & How to Be Grounded in Your Body
M'kali-Hashiki has a complex sexual history including personal experience with polyamory, non-monogamy, BDSM, and achieving mystical states during sex. She considers herself a “sexual outlaw”, as well as being a...
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Fat Sex, Topping & Bottoming and How To Be a Dominant in Bed
Nikki DaVaughn joins Jess to share insights on Domination, dirty talk, fat sex and body confidence. We cover:
Scripts you can use if you want to try being more Dominant with your lover.
The difference between...
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Learning to Love Yourself — Especially When Dealing With Loss, Grief & Shame
Dr. Ava Cadell shares her journey from growing up in an orphanage and surviving assault to working as a nude model and becoming one of the most well-known sexologists in the world. Ava shares a wealth of information...
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Holiday Kink, Rewiring the Brain, ABDL & Setting Boundaries
Licensed therapist Carlos Cavazos is a firecracker and an incredible source of insights and easy-to-use advice for more fulfilling relationships and hotter sex. In this episode we discuss:
How to take care of...
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How the “Passion Interview” Can Improve Your Relationship
The Passion Interview is a tool used for couples to spark passion, improve understanding, and deepen intimacy. It’s designed to shift the conversation away from the mundane to the exploratory. Jess uses this exercise...
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In(Compatibility): When You Want an Open Relationship & Your Partner Doesn’t
How do you approach your partner about an open relationship? What do you do if one partner wants monogamy and the other wants consensual non-monogamy? How do you get your partner to talk about sex if they’re shy or...
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Sex & Disability – A Personal Journey
How do we define disability inclusively? How does disability affect sex and relationships? And why should we consider incontinence a public health issue? Mari Ramsawakh joins Jess and Brandon to reflect upon their...
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How Does ADHD Affect Sex & Relationships?
How does ADHD affect sex, communication and intimate relationships? How do you break break the “parent-child” dynamic in relationships so you can focus on being partners and lovers? Psychologist and sex therapist, Dr....
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Expand Pleasure, Navigate Trauma, Manage Anxiety & Have More Fulfilling Relationships
Interdisciplinary sex therapist, Jamila M. Dawson, joins Jess and Brandon in to discuss how sexual pleasure can be part of healing from trauma, the elements of happy relationships, how to be emotionally present,...
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Porn as Activism, Fetishes & Parenthood As a Porn Star
Porn performer and Master Fetish Trainer, King Noire, joins Jess and Brandon to share his story as a community activist, porn star, hip hop artist and father. He discusses fetishes, sexual oppression and repression,...
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