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4 Types of Couples -- Which One Are You?
Do opposites attract?Are you really attracted to funny people or do you find attractive people funnier?And which type of dating couple are you?Researchers suggest that there are four types of dating couples and your...
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Sex, Gender & Intimacy: People Collide with Isle McElroy
Isle Mcelroy joins Jess and Brandon to talk about intimacy, vulnerability and sex -- on paper and in the flesh. An award-winning non-binary author based in New York, Mcelroy's latest novel People Collide is a...
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Managing Burnout In Relationships: Conservation of Resources Theory
What are the signs of burnout, and how do they - show up in relationships? How might the Conservation of Resources theory apply to personal relationships? And how can we use the Conservation of Resource lens to manage...
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Eroticize Daily Interactions: 20 Actionable Tips For Busy Couples
How do you keep things exciting amid a repetitive routine?How can adults be more playful (because playfulness is associated with happier relationships & hotter sex)? What simple changes can you implement to make...
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How To Stop Bickering: 12 Strategies
Do you want to...Bicker less and catch yourself before you start?Stay calm and empathetic during conflict?Feel more at ease and connected so - that you're less inclined to fight?
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Candid Conversations: Managing the 'Work Spouse' and Therapy Avoidance
In this Q&A, Jess and Brandon weigh in on listener queries related to "work spouses", dealing with a partner who refuses to go to therapy and "love tattoos":
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Sex & Relationship Q&A: Cheating, Trust & Sexual Pressure
How do you define cheating? And how do you recover once trust has been broken? How do you deal with sexual pressure from a partner?
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How To Plan A Successful Threesome
In Part II of our threesome discussion, we share questions and prompts to consider before you have a threesome — for individuals and couples. We also share some of our listeners’ insights on threesomes and discuss...
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All About Threesomes
Most people fantasize about threesomes, but not many people actually dive in. In part I of our Threesomes podcast, we dive into the data and get some practical advice from Justin Lehmiller who answers your questions...
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Pleasure, Spanking & Masculinity with King Noire
Curious about kink, spanking, ethical porn and how to have better sex? The inimitable King Noire shares his perspective of pleasure, pansexuality, performance and much more in this candid conversation with Jess &...
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A Guide to Compassionate Communication
How do you cultivate deeper connection through communication? How can you summon compassion in the heat of conflict? How do you define non-violent communication? What is polyvagal theory? Sander T. Jones joins Jess...
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3 Sex & Relationship Lessons From "Lifestyle" Couples
Couples in The Lifestyle (AKA Swingers) practice a form of ethical non-monogamy that usually involves sex play with other singles and/or couples. In this quickie episode, Jess and Brandon discuss advice from three...
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