Hot Tips for Vibrator Use

Use sex toys to break your routine and add creativity to your bedroom play. Here are 7 ways to up the pleasure ante with nothing but good vibes. 

1. Roll your bullet vibrator teasingly between your lover’s thighs to allow the vibrations to awaken their nerve endings throughout the entire pelvic region.

This can prime their body to experience orgasmic sensations far beyond the genitals...when the times comes. Try out the TangoX for the ultimate pleasure! And if you’re new to sex toys and want to try something a bit more affordable, check out the Romp Beat.

2. Add some water-based lube and sweep the tip of your toy over their F-Spot as you breathe warm air over the area.

If they have a penis, the F-Spot is on the underside where the head meets the shaft. It’s the frenulum that attaches the foreskin and if they’re circumcised, you’ll still find a sensitive notch to play with.

If they have a vulva, play with their fourchette, which is the highly responsive spot where their lips meet at the very bottom of the vulva.

3. Play with Pleasure Air to create a more overwhelming experience.

Though not technically vibrators, toys with patented pleasure air technology use tiny waves of air to indirectly stimulate your hottest spots. Check out the Womanizer Premium  for clitorises and the ArcWave Ion for penises.

The Womanizer Premium is an orgasm machine. Its silky head sits around the head of the clitoris to create the most unique sensation that I’d describe as a cross between sucking, licking, kissing and pulsing. It has an autopilot mode and Smart Silence technology.

The ArcWave Ion is brand new and it’s totally unique. It also uses Pleasure Air technology to stimulate the sensitive pacinian receptors of the penis. It’s a whole new experience in sex toys and once you get the hang of it, you’ll likely experience more full-bodied orgasms.

4. To intensify orgasmic contractions, use a flat vibrator with a pulsing sensation along the perineum as they approach orgasm.

You can press and release or set your toy to a pulsing mode. I highly recommend the TouchX for this one. It's my all-time favourite toy -- simple, powerful & versatile.

5. Incorporate your favourite toy into your oral routine to double-team them.

Press it against the shaft as you work over the head with your lips and tongue or run it along the balls while you swallow from base to tip. Or press the tip of the vibe against the head of their clitoris while your lips and tongue work their magic down below. 

6. Use a vibrating ring or insertable toy to double the pleasure (and give you a helping hand) during oral and manual sex.

The Pivot is perfect for penises and the Chorus more than does the trick for clitorises (and G-zones)!

7. Play in public. Why wait until you’re alone in bed? Instead, rile them up throughout the day with a wearable app enabled toy. The Moxie is perfect for wearing in your panties (and it has a little magnet to hold it in place) and the Ditto (on sale as it’s soon to be discontinued) is tiny and discreet for those into backdoor play.

However you play with your toys, keep an open mind and explore the entire body. Blindfold your lover to tease them with the sound of their favourite vibe or explore lesser known erogenous zones like the collarbone and small of the back to see if you can carve out new pathways to pleasure and orgasm.

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